Tuesday, August 27, 2013

C.Metro....Bruh

Anyone who knows me understands that I respect those who are out here using their talents to make it in life, so when I saw this guy by the name of C. Metro constantly promoting himself via Twitter, I couldn't help but pay attention.  He was different from the other self-promoting rappers who would pop up in your DMs with some generic pre-written BS saying “Thanks for the follow. Check out my new single “Booty Meat and Cigarillos” on YouTube.” On top of that, he attended University of South Carolina – Aiken, a university not too far from my own.  So, when he shot me a direct message the other day asking me to promote for him, I took it as an opportunity to not only compliment his talent, but ask for an interview since I admired his drive and ambition.  He told me he would be down for it ASAP and needless to say, I got super excited because I KNEW for a FACT he was going somewhere, my “successful man senses” were tingling  and I have NEVER been wrong *laughs*. As a matter of fact, three days after our interview, he earned himself a record deal with State House Records.
Since I am car-less and jobless, I figured the best way to go about the interview was via Oovoo and after witnessing his easiness on the eyes, charm and humor, I was beyond happy I was NOT to be in his presence. 
The first question I asked him was what his real name was. The future educator in me just refuses to call people by their nicknames, shortened names, or in his case, stage name so I thought it only appropriate to ask. He said, “Leo Jones” and I asked how to spell it since my name is pronounced ‘Imani’ but spelled ‘Emynee.’ He laughed a little and told me that he doesn't think that there’s any other way to spell it.
I then asked where he was from, since I know a lot of artists pull inspiration from where they originate. He said he was born in Texas, but he has lived in Columbia, SC for the last 15 or 16 and I’m guessing it would be safe to say that that is where the inspiration for his stage name comes from.
I listened to his CD, Bars 2 (which I will put up the link to at the bottom of the post) and was really impressed by it, I did not skip one song and that is rare for me to do….especially when it comes to rap. I found that the songs I enjoyed most were “Bed of Roses” and “Once Again” since they had an R&B tip to them. When I told him this, he smiled a little bit and told me that he likes R&B as well. He felt as though he was holding back his lyrical ability though, so he decided to make that CD. On both of the tracks, a singer by the name of Quez was featured, so naturally I asked how the two met. He told me that he had known him since the time around his freshman year of high school but he had passed away. I didn’t want to go into too much detail because I know how I am when it comes to loved ones passing, so I moved on to my next question. 
With the whole uproar that surrounded Kendrick Lamar’s verse in one of the songs he was featured in, I thought it would be interesting to hear his thoughts on the state of the rap game today. Very honestly, the self-proclaimed genius told me that he couldn’t speak on the game as a whole, but locally (as in South Carolina) he said that the game is not where it needs to be. He stated that he doesn’t like collaborating because rappers here do not work hard and they do not take rapping seriously.  I then asked him what separates him from other artists. Since he clearly stated that he was a hard worker with his previous question, I asked if it was his work ethic that separated him from the rest. He said that he was his biggest critic. He said that he doesn’t like sleeping because he feels as though he’ll be missing out on something. He told me that he could have an 8AM class but stay up all night perfecting his craft.
I asked who influenced his style and he said that nobody influenced his style. If he could compare himself to other rappers, it doesn’t make him an artist. He moved on to telling me that he switches up his style a lot and that he studies Biggie Smalls’s flow as well as Lil Wayne’s. I could not help but smile since that mentality, the willingness to not only be a student to your craft but go further and become a trailblazer, is what makes the greats, greater. 
After dealing with a technical difficulty that had me running up and down the hallways for another computer (thanks for your patience by the way), I continued the interview by asking what he felt was the highest or most successful point in his career this far. He told me that this past summer as a whole was the highest point. He said that he works by himself, since he is worrisome about hiring help, but still managed to get shows everywhere – in Georgia, Columbia, Charleston…basically all over South Carolina. The second to last question I asked was who he would like to work with in the future and right off the bat he said Kendrick Lamar, he also said he would like to work with Future as well, stating “Everything he touches goes; he just doesn’t rap, he’s smart with it.” He told me that he would never want to work with anyone like 2Chainz because he raps dumb for someone who graduated college with a 4.0 GPA.
To close the interview I asked him if he would like to give any shout outs and they go as follows:

The Dogg Pound in Greenwood, South Carolina – (“Ay, girl what you know about the Dogg Pound??” ß He told me to add this lol) He said that these men are like brothers to him and keep him level headed.

His cousin Carlos Dubois who attends my university, Claflin University

His cousin Marquis Jones, who is #27 on South Carolina State University’s football team

Last but not least, his roommate Vincent at USCA

At the end of the interview he told me to tell y’all other things about him. He said that he is not a dumb rapper. He is on the Dean’s List and he also enjoys drinking beer. Clearly, he has a great sense of humor. *laughs*

Anyway, C.Metro also has a mixtape coming out soon which will probably drop within the next month, but to hold you over I suggest you check out his CD Bars 2 via this link à http://www.hotnewhiphop.com/c-metro-bars-2-mixtape.91151.html


You can also follow him on twitter: @cmetrobruh

It was honestly such a great experience to interview this talented young man and I look forward to what he has in store for us in days to come!! XOXO

Thursday, August 15, 2013

What Would You March For?

      In the spirit of the 50th anniversary of the March on Washington, interns with the National Urban League  (one of which happens to be my friend Tyler Breland) made a video asking a few questions about pressing issues which challenge the Black community to do a reality check. After watching this video, I urge you all to ask the same things. As an English education major who has a passion for equality, I would march for equal footing in the classroom, especially when it comes to our Black boys. I would march for teachers' rights to expand outside of preparation for testing and tailor their curriculum to meet the needs of their students. I would also march for an increase in programs that offer clearance of mind to youth who live in areas where contentment with being static is status quo.

Even though I won't be in attendance *sad face*, I do look forward to the stories that I'll hear from the friends who will be there.

Enjoy!

  

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

The "Rehearsal Chick"

I read: "Men have Rehearsal Chicks." 

Naturally, I read on because I had never read anything like this before.


"They aren't side hoes, they aren't jump offs; these are girls they meet and treat like their real girlfriends but never give the title." 


I could've stopped right there but I read on, mainly because we had consistently agreed that we were "friends", "working towards a relationship." 

I then read: "This is practice for his potential soul mate. Their Main chicks won't be easy to f*ck so why put the focus on p*ssy." 


At this moment, I'm dying a little inside. While it is true that I have never had sex with any of the men I had put in the running for contenders as my boyfriend, there was still intimate stuff shared that I had never shared with anyone, and in my mind that is equivalent to allowing someone to caress my soul....because trusting someone enough to invite them to the inner depths of me, was doing just that.


"Women can be used for more than just their vagina."


I said, "If she's talking about money, I ain't got none of that. I'm a 20 year old BROKE college student, so what in the world can I POSSIBLY be used for?" I then read on...

"Men can't come out and cry on each others shoulder's cause simp behavior is not accepted."

"So they move on to the next female they meet to get over the last."
"They rehearse with the new girl because honestly they aren't ready to give her the title of girlfriend."
"Eventually that rehearsal chick will gain his trust and his heart will heal enough to be in a relationship again."
"But more times than not, it won't be with the girl that helped him get over his ex."
"Men appreciate the nursing back to full strength but once those Danger Room exercises are complete, it's on to a main chick."
"You love him he's your boo aww how cute! Accept it, he chose another b*tch over you!"

At this point my bottom jaw has been on the ground for close to two or three minutes. I just go on ahead and grab that shoe because that sh*t fit perfectly! For close to a year, I had told myself that I was "The Trainer" because I would be so kind and gentle and patient with these broken men and then they move on, never asking if I would do them the honor of being their girlfriend or anything. In all of my 20 years, I have never even had the courtesy of being taken on a date even though I had put so much energy and effort into them. But this woman, Mimi Larrieux, had put a real title to what I was going through and even though it hurt my feelings, it was that OG wisdom that makes you wanna do better and be better because you are no longer blind to reality. 


The thing I must focus on now is my change in action. How in the world am I going to make sure this never happens again? I know I am more than deserving to be someone's significant other and there are plenty of men who would be more than happy to place me on that pedestal with no qualms. It's just unfortunate that I have had run-ins with men who didn't believe that. Do I mask my beautiful spirit that seems to seep through my pores even when I put on my hardest grimace? Or do I just become like everyone else and develop trust issues and expect the nexts to use me as a Bob the Builder for the Soul just as the lasts? 


I'm just kidding, I'm naturally loving and trusting so that would probably work for like two weeks *laughs*.


Gosh y'all...I don't know. 


The beautiful thing about life though, is that it is continuously teaching us and granting us wisdom while we live it. I have learned from MY mistake, will continue to build myself back up and keep it moving the best I know how, because honestly, that's all I can do. 

As always feel free to leave any comments, suggestions and questions below or email me at emynee.garrett@gmail.com! I love interacting with my readers!XOXO

And PLEASE go follow the woman who acted as life's teacher and is the inspiration behind this #BellePost @MIMI_LARRIEUX on Twitter!